Learn to Love Yourself Again
Self Improvement

Learn to Love Yourself Again

Have you ever been to the point in your life where you have lost all respect for people you love, even yourself and you just feel like killing yourself would be the best choice? The truth is, you have to stop thinking this thought and learn to love yourself and learn to honor who you are.

There are things that you can do in your life to allow you to be better with who you are. You probably struggle in your life to love and embrace who you are because you are not going to be perfect and because you are not always strong.

You have to learn to be honest with yourself and with who you are and give yourself credit that you deserve. It is important to know that not everyone that you love will be on the same page or grow the same time as you do and that is okay.

It is important that you are your own best friend because then when you fail, you can tell yourself to pick it up and do better. Maybe you love the idea of people loving you, but you always forget to love who you are.

Realizing that you have a task of loving yourself is important. You have to break through walls that you have built that have made you feel afraid and made you refuse to embrace who you are. You have to learn to embrace yourself through your faults and quirks and through the times you have been rejected. When you learn to connect with yourself then you can be more caring and intimate with your own self and see how others do love you.

Here are some things you need to do:

What You Love

Write down what you love about yourself. If you don’t like writing, look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself what you see. Push the disappointments away from you and learn to accept yourself for who you are.

The way that you see the goodness in others is what you need to see in yourself. You must learn to have patience with yourself and learn to love who you are first before other people.

What it Is

Life is what it is, and you have to learn to accept it. Life will not be perfect and when you want to become your true self then you need to look at what is going on and learn to accept things for what they are.

Take the journey of being happy and at peace with yourself.

Focus Less on Approval

You do not have to have everyone’s approval to be good. You do not have to ask people if you are allowed to be different. You are different and you are good because of who you are. Stop asking for people to approve of who you are and give yourself permission to move forward.

Distance from Negativity

Being in bad relationships can be hurtful to you and nothing is worse than having to deal with these relationships. Stop being around people that bring you down and make you feel bad about who you are.

Learn to find people in your life that love, respect and motivate you. Know your worth and who you are and demand people to know this about you.

Forgive Yourself

Look at the things in your life that have been hard and learn to move forward from them. You have to forgive who you are and the problems that you have dealt with in your life. Forgive yourself for mistakes that you have made and accept that even good people make mistakes.

You are a human being and you have to stop focusing on what you did wrong and make better choices.


Just because you love yourself doesn’t mean you are perfect, and you don’t need to change. We all have things in our life that need to be different. Start making changes for things that need to be different. Change your thoughts and your actions and learn to empower who you are.


Accept that you are successful and that you will fail sometimes. Do not be afraid of making mistakes and learn to take chances.


Be thankful for what you have. You will never get all the things that you want and life will not always be as good as you wish it would be but learn to work through these things and learn to accept that what you have is good.

Use the pain and frustration that you have in life to motivate you to be better and be thankful for where you came from.


Find things in your life that make you happy. Do activities that you love and make decisions in your life that make you feel better. There is nothing selfish about being happy and taking care of yourself.

Do new things and experience new things in your life.

Ideas and Opportunities

Embrace new ideas and opportunities that come your way. Allow yourself to deal with the uncertainty of life but do not chase away new experiences.


Listen to your intuition and pay attention to what the universe is trying to tell you. Always speak the truth and learn to have confidence in your ideas and what you are saying. Do what is right for you and believe in yourself.


You have many great traits and abilities and you need to believe in what you can do. Believe in what you can do and what you want and know you are worthy.

Write It

Stop just reading your story and learn to write it and live it. Let yourself highlight what is real and stop comparing who you are to everyone else.

Living Life

Pay attention to the good things that happen to you in your life. Give yourself a gift of love and happiness. Pay attention to what has happened from your birth till now and what you want to do in the future.

Do not forget things of your life and learn to remember things you have pushed aside.

Stop Being So Serious

Stop being so serious all the time. Allow yourself to have fun and to laugh. Have a good sense of humor and learn to laugh at yourself when things happen.

Be Kind

Treat others the way that you want to be treated. Love them with all that is inside of you. Learn to be confident in your humility and forgiveness and do not judge others. Be thankful for people that do not treat you right and know they are learning their own lessons.


People will come and go throughout your life, but you will always be there. Learn to love yourself and be the best person you can be. Nurture and care for your own well-being and love yourself for who you are.

Here are some things you should do:

  • Spend time loving others.
  • Think about ways to love yourself more.
  • Spend time with those that help you.
  • Help other people.
  • Forgive yourself.
  • Love who you are.

Never stop loving who you are and never stop working through your struggles in life.

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